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	<title>Comments on: On Bragging</title>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
		<link>http://blog.sugarenia.com/archives/life/on-bragging/comment-page-1#comment-143569</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 15:57:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hate bragging love sharing life experiences. There&#039;s thus guy who totally bugs me on facebook &amp; prompted me to search hate bragging. He says things like it&#039;s only Monday and I have too many requests to hang this weekend...... Acts as if he&#039;s famous but when I look at the functions he&#039;s speaking of they have 0 value except to pump his 40 sumthn trying to act 20 sumthn ego. I think he needs the validation so I hold my opinion and see it as ultimately not harmful to me. So watevr but I deem it PATHETIC!!!!! Not every1 is me &amp; that&#039;s ok.......... Still annoying sumtimes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate bragging love sharing life experiences. There&#8217;s thus guy who totally bugs me on facebook &amp; prompted me to search hate bragging. He says things like it&#8217;s only Monday and I have too many requests to hang this weekend&#8230;&#8230; Acts as if he&#8217;s famous but when I look at the functions he&#8217;s speaking of they have 0 value except to pump his 40 sumthn trying to act 20 sumthn ego. I think he needs the validation so I hold my opinion and see it as ultimately not harmful to me. So watevr but I deem it PATHETIC!!!!! Not every1 is me &amp; that&#8217;s ok&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;. Still annoying sumtimes.</p>
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		<title>By: Lea Verou</title>
		<link>http://blog.sugarenia.com/archives/life/on-bragging/comment-page-1#comment-116235</link>
		<dc:creator>Lea Verou</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 16:15:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that there&#039;s a very thin line between showcasing thyself and bragging. For instance, I may consider the same thing either bragging, or showcasing thyself depending on who says it. 

Also, bragging is &lt;strong&gt;highly&lt;/strong&gt; subjective. 

For instance, I consider it bragging when somebody speaks to me about something he* hardly knows, using as many technical terms as possible to sound like he actually has a clue. However, the subjective part here is &quot;he hardly knows&quot;. Who defines that? And how easy is it to spot? It heavily depends on your own knowledge on the matter, so consequently, it depends on you.

Another example: Someone might want to brag, but since (s)he knows that bragging is frowned upon by most people, (s)he will find a more sophisticated way to do it, so that it doesn&#039;t sound like bragging. Consequently, whether you understand if it&#039;s bragging or not depends on your intelligence and capability to read between the lines, so it again depends on you. 

As for my personal opinion, I hate bragging most of the times, especially when it comes from people that I consider ignorant. However, I try my best to not confuse bragging with high confidence, as lots of people do. I also hate bragging&#039;s opposite exactly as much: Undermining thyself and being insecure. 

*The pronoun &quot;he&quot; was intentional. As much as I hate gender discrimination, I have to admit I haven&#039;t still observed that behavior from women. Most women I&#039;ve met are chiefly &quot;guilty&quot; of the exact opposite of bragging: Undermining thyself and being insecure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that there&#8217;s a very thin line between showcasing thyself and bragging. For instance, I may consider the same thing either bragging, or showcasing thyself depending on who says it. </p>
<p>Also, bragging is <strong>highly</strong> subjective. </p>
<p>For instance, I consider it bragging when somebody speaks to me about something he* hardly knows, using as many technical terms as possible to sound like he actually has a clue. However, the subjective part here is &#8220;he hardly knows&#8221;. Who defines that? And how easy is it to spot? It heavily depends on your own knowledge on the matter, so consequently, it depends on you.</p>
<p>Another example: Someone might want to brag, but since (s)he knows that bragging is frowned upon by most people, (s)he will find a more sophisticated way to do it, so that it doesn&#8217;t sound like bragging. Consequently, whether you understand if it&#8217;s bragging or not depends on your intelligence and capability to read between the lines, so it again depends on you. </p>
<p>As for my personal opinion, I hate bragging most of the times, especially when it comes from people that I consider ignorant. However, I try my best to not confuse bragging with high confidence, as lots of people do. I also hate bragging&#8217;s opposite exactly as much: Undermining thyself and being insecure. </p>
<p>*The pronoun &#8220;he&#8221; was intentional. As much as I hate gender discrimination, I have to admit I haven&#8217;t still observed that behavior from women. Most women I&#8217;ve met are chiefly &#8220;guilty&#8221; of the exact opposite of bragging: Undermining thyself and being insecure.</p>
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		<title>By: Sugar</title>
		<link>http://blog.sugarenia.com/archives/life/on-bragging/comment-page-1#comment-116120</link>
		<dc:creator>Sugar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 23:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@klou 

Nah, I think you&#039;re safe. A weird case of bragging is when you RT yourself in Twitter. That&#039;s... clinical.

@Svelon

Bragging is one thing, showcasing thyself is another.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@klou </p>
<p>Nah, I think you&#8217;re safe. A weird case of bragging is when you RT yourself in Twitter. That&#8217;s&#8230; clinical.</p>
<p>@Svelon</p>
<p>Bragging is one thing, showcasing thyself is another.</p>
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		<title>By: Svelon</title>
		<link>http://blog.sugarenia.com/archives/life/on-bragging/comment-page-1#comment-116113</link>
		<dc:creator>Svelon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 21:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You &#039;ve got a &quot;list&quot;? 
Oh no! The agony!

I hate bragging, too, but sometimes it&#039;s inevitable, since it&#039;s the easiest way (yet not the most efficient) to be heard.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You &#8216;ve got a &#8220;list&#8221;?<br />
Oh no! The agony!</p>
<p>I hate bragging, too, but sometimes it&#8217;s inevitable, since it&#8217;s the easiest way (yet not the most efficient) to be heard.</p>
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		<title>By: klou</title>
		<link>http://blog.sugarenia.com/archives/life/on-bragging/comment-page-1#comment-116111</link>
		<dc:creator>klou</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 21:04:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes i &quot;throw&quot; little tips or links that I believe are useful to people. 
Is this bragging? 

Or you mean those people who are always like: &quot;From a meeting, to another meeting and to another client and how great am i ! &quot; ? :p</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes i &#8220;throw&#8221; little tips or links that I believe are useful to people.<br />
Is this bragging? </p>
<p>Or you mean those people who are always like: &#8220;From a meeting, to another meeting and to another client and how great am i ! &#8221; ? :p</p>
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